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What does it mean?
Linking lack of physical intimacy to internal tension and hostility.
In plain terms
Not having sex makes you angry and tense.
What can you take from it?
Physical needs affect mental health.

Where it applies

  • marriage
  • mental health
  • interpersonal conflict

Putting it to work

  • addressing needs
  • seeking connection

Questions to consider

  • Is tension affecting you?
  • Do you neglect yourself?

Another view

Celibacy does not always cause hostility.

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