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What does it mean?
Children have their own minds and resist being controlled or tamed.
In plain terms
Children have their own minds and do not like being tamed.
What can you take from it?
Respect children's independence and autonomy.

Where it applies

  • parenting
  • education
  • discipline

Putting it to work

  • avoiding coercion
  • encouraging independence

Questions to consider

  • How do we balance control and freedom?
  • Do children resist nature or nurture?

Another view

Some guidance and limits are necessary for safety.

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