There are 2 kinds of women a man can marry. The kind that's stronger than he is, and the kind that's weaker. I've lived with both, Charlie. It's hard to live with a strong woman, because she can make you afraid sometimes, and sometimes you feel like you aren't in control of your life. But let me tell you, boy, it's a damn sight better than living with a weak woman, because many a man isn't as good as his woman, but I never knew a husband who was better than his wife
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Marrying a strong woman may be hard but is better than marrying a weak one.
- In plain terms
- Strong wives challenge control but are ultimately better partners.
- What can you take from it?
- Choose a partner who challenges you.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What makes a partner good?
- How do you feel in control?
Another view
This relies on gender stereotypes about weak women.
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