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What does it mean?
The speaker suggests men often cannot endure total truth from a partner, using their mistress's view as evidence.
In plain terms
Men cannot handle a woman who tells them only the truth.
What can you take from it?
People often avoid hard truths.

Where it applies

  • romantic relationships
  • friendships
  • therapy

Putting it to work

  • expect resistance to truth
  • balance honesty with kindness

Questions to consider

  • Why is truth hard to hear?
  • Is complete honesty always best?

Another view

This assumes all men react the same way to truth.

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