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What does it mean?
Men may believe what they want to hear is true, even when it is not.
In plain terms
Men believe things because they want to, not because they are true.
What can you take from it?
Desire clouds belief.

Where it applies

  • political discourse
  • sales
  • personal decisions

Putting it to work

  • question comforting claims
  • verify desires against facts

Questions to consider

  • Why do we believe lies?
  • How to distinguish wishful thinking from fact?

Another view

Not everyone believes only what they want to hear.

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