My dear father, if we men married the women we deserved, we should have a very bad time of it.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- If men married women they truly deserved, the marriage would be disastrous.
- In plain terms
- Marrying the women we deserve would lead to a bad time.
- What can you take from it?
- Reflect on what we truly deserve in partners.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What makes a partner 'deserved'?
- Can we change what we deserve?
Another view
It suggests a deterministic view of compatibility.
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