The one charm of marriage is that it makes a life of deception absolutely necessary for both parties.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Marriage requires mutual deception to maintain harmony, according to Wilde.
- In plain terms
- Marriage often involves necessary deceit.
- What can you take from it?
- Recognize and manage the facades in partnership.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Is deception ever justified in a marriage?
- How can couples balance authenticity and harmony?
Another view
Many marriages thrive on honesty and transparency.
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