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What does it mean?
Men marry out of fatigue, women out of curiosity; both end disappointed.
In plain terms
Men marry because they’re tired, women because they’re curious, and both get letassed.
What can you take from it?
Marriage should be entered for deeper reasons than fatigue or curiosity.

Where it applies

  • dating
  • long‑term partnership

Putting it to work

  • communicate expectations
  • seek compatibility

Questions to consider

  • What are my true reasons for marriage?
  • How can expectations be aligned?

Another view

Some marriages based on love and curiosity thrive.

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