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What does it mean?
Being called a sinner makes a person extremely vain.
In plain terms
Labeling someone a sinner inflates their ego.
What can you take from it?
Avoid using moral labels that boost ego.

Where it applies

  • criticism
  • social media
  • interpersonal conflict

Putting it to work

  • using neutral language
  • focusing on behavior not label

Questions to consider

  • How do labels affect your self‑esteem?
  • When have you seen vanity from criticism?

Another view

Some may feel shame rather than vanity.

More from Oscar Wilde

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  2. I don't want to be at the mercy of my emotions. I want to use them, to enjoy them, and to dominate them.

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  3. It is the confession, not the priest, that gives us absolution.

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