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Because we don't know when we will die, we get to think of life as an inexhaustable well. Yet everything happens only a certain number of times, and a very small number really. How many more times will you remember a certain afternoon of your childhood, some afternoon that is so deeply part of your being that you, that you can't even conceive of your life without it? Perhaps four or five times more, perhaps not even that. How many more times will you watch the full moon rise? Perhaps 20. And yet it all seems limitless.

Paul Bowles#3

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Life feels endless but actual repetitions of meaningful moments are few.
In plain terms
We think life is infinite but count moments are rare.
What can you take from it?
Cherish memories because they repeat rarely.

Where it applies

  • reflection
  • aging
  • loss

Putting it to work

  • savoring moments
  • journaling
  • mindfulness

Questions to consider

  • How often do you revisit a memory?
  • Is life finite or infinite?

Another view

It assumes we remember experiences a fixed few times.

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