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What does it mean?
People insecure about their status often mistreat those they perceive as lower to assert dominance.
In plain terms
Those unsure of their place hurt others below them to feel better.
What can you take from it?
Insecurity drives oppression within social hierarchies.

Where it applies

  • workplace dynamics
  • racial relations
  • group behavior

Putting it to work

  • recognize insecurity
  • challenge hierarchy
  • build empathy

Questions to consider

  • Why do people bully?
  • How does status affect behavior?

Another view

Not all mistreatment stems from personal insecurity.

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