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The first time I remember women reacting to me was when we were filming Hud in Texas. Women were literally trying to climb through the transoms at the motel where I stayed. At first, it's flattering to the ego. At first. Then you realize that they're mixing me up with the roles I play - characters created by writers who have nothing to do with who I am.

Paul Newman#7

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Newman describes women reacting to him on a set, initially flattering but later realizing they were attracted to his on‑screen characters, not his true self.
In plain terms
Fans often love the roles actors play more than the actors themselves.
What can you take from it?
Separate personal identity from public persona.

Where it applies

  • film sets
  • public events

Putting it to work

  • manage expectations
  • communicate authenticity

Questions to consider

  • How do you maintain self‑esteem amid typecasting?
  • What boundaries help separate role from self?

Another view

May generalize all fan interactions.

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