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Nooooooah. No, that was a big joke in the family. When I was 16, 17, I started drifting away from everything else and picking up a guitar, and it was like, 'What are you doing? You can't sing and you can't play a guitar', right up to the day we got signed by Rough Trade. And then it was like, 'Go on play us a song', whereas before it was, 'Shut up, fucking racket.'

Peter Doherty#7

MusicFamilyJudgmentSuccessValidation

About this quote

What does it mean?
Family and peers mocked the speaker's early music efforts until success changed their attitude.
In plain terms
People laughed at me for playing guitar until I got signed, then they wanted to hear me.
What can you take from it?
External validation often shifts perceptions of talent and effort.

Where it applies

  • pursuing art
  • facing criticism
  • achieving goals

Putting it to work

  • persisting in hobbies
  • ignoring doubt
  • sharing work

Questions to consider

  • Who doubted your talents?
  • How does success change how people treat you?

Another view

It reduces complex artistic motivation to external approval.

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