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What does it mean?
The author claims flattery can win over every woman, though men vary by type.
In plain terms
Flattery works on everyone, but different types work for different people.
What can you take from it?
Tailor flattery to the person you want to influence.

Where it applies

  • social interaction
  • negotiation
  • courtship

Putting it to work

  • identify what pleases others
  • use praise strategically

Questions to consider

  • Is flattery a useful tool or manipulation?
  • What kind of flattery works on you?

Another view

It assumes flattery is universally effective and ethically neutral.

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