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What does it mean?
How others see us is often a distorted version of reality we cannot witness.
In plain terms
Other people think of us as someone we do not know.
What can you take from it?
We never truly know how others perceive us.

Where it applies

  • social interaction
  • self-image
  • reputation

Putting it to work

  • manage impressions
  • accept misperceptions
  • focus on self

Questions to consider

  • Who are you to others?
  • Can you ever know how you are seen?

Another view

Sometimes people accurately understand us despite the gap.

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