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Love is at first not anything that means merging, giving over and uniting with another (for what would a union be of something unclarified and unfinished, still subordinate?), it is a high inducement to the individual to ripen, to become world, to become world for himself for another's sake. It is a great exacting claim upon him, something that chooses him out and calls him to vast things.

Rainer Maria Rilke#48

GrowthLoveSelf growthIndividualitySelf development

About this quote

What does it mean?
Love is not about merging but about prompting each individual to mature and become a world for themselves and others.
In plain terms
Love pushes individuals to grow and become whole.
What can you take from it?
Use love as a catalyst for personal development.

Where it applies

  • personal development
  • creative pursuits

Putting it to work

  • set personal goals
  • practice self‑reflection

Questions to consider

  • In what ways has love spurred your growth?
  • Can love and independence coexist?

Another view

May overlook the need for mutual interdependence.

More from Rainer Maria Rilke

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  2. The demands which the difficult work of love makes upon our development are more than life-size, and as beginners we are not up to them. But if we nevertheless…

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  3. People have (with the help of conventions) oriented all their solutions toward the easy and toward the easiest side of the easy; but it is clear that we must h…

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