Love is at first not anything that means merging, giving over and uniting with another (for what would a union be of something unclarified and unfinished, still subordinate?), it is a high inducement to the individual to ripen, to become world, to become world for himself for another's sake. It is a great exacting claim upon him, something that chooses him out and calls him to vast things.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Love is not about merging but about prompting each individual to mature and become a world for themselves and others.
- In plain terms
- Love pushes individuals to grow and become whole.
- What can you take from it?
- Use love as a catalyst for personal development.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- In what ways has love spurred your growth?
- Can love and independence coexist?
Another view
May overlook the need for mutual interdependence.
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