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What does it mean?
Young people lack the experience to understand love fully and must learn it over time.
In plain terms
Youth must learn love through experience.
What can you take from it?
Give yourself time to grow in love.

Where it applies

  • dating
  • friendships
  • family

Putting it to work

  • reflect on past relationships
  • seek mentorship

Questions to consider

  • How does your age affect your view of love?
  • What can you do to accelerate learning love?

Another view

Generalizes all young people, ignoring individual differences.

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