Is not marriage an open question, when it is alleged, from the beginning of the world, that such as are in the institution wish to get out, and such as are out wish to get in?
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- People inside marriage want out, but those outside want in.
- In plain terms
- Marriage seems like a paradox of desire.
- What can you take from it?
- Desire shifts between states.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Why do people want what they don't have?
- Is marriage worth it?
Another view
Not everyone feels trapped or left out.
More from Ralph Waldo Emerson
Keep cool: it will be all one a hundred years hence.
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