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Truth is handsomer than the affectation of love. Your goodness must have some edge to it, - else it is none. The doctrine of hatred must be preached as the counteraction of the doctrine of love when that pules and whines. I shun father and mother and wife and brother, when my genius calls me. I would write on the lintels of the door-post, Whim. I hope it is somewhat better than whim at last, but we cannot spend the day in explanation. Expect me not to show cause why I seek or why I exclude company.

Ralph Waldo Emerson#94

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Truth and genuine goodness are better than fake love; sometimes extreme measures are needed to correct false doctrines.
In plain terms
Be honest and let your kindness have a strong edge instead of being weak.
What can you take from it?
Genuine truth and strong character outweigh polite affectations.

Where it applies

  • moral conflicts
  • personal growth
  • writing

Putting it to work

  • prioritize truth over politeness
  • follow your inner genius

Questions to consider

  • Is your kindness too soft?
  • What calls your genius?

Another view

Extreme independence can isolate a person from needed community support.

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