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What does it mean?
Women do not doom men who are not already predisposed to trouble.
In plain terms
A woman ruins a man only if he was already doomed.
What can you take from it?
External blame often hides internal flaws.

Where it applies

  • relationship breakdown
  • career ruin
  • personal accountability

Putting it to work

  • taking responsibility
  • avoiding scapegoats
  • self-reflection

Questions to consider

  • Who do you blame for failures?
  • How much is your fault?

Another view

Dismisses genuine harm caused by others.

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