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What does it mean?
It suggests that blame exists when consent was given, and pursuit follows rejection.
In plain terms
If you let someone try, you share blame. If you say no, they come closer.
What can you take from it?
Consent and rejection both influence outcome.

Where it applies

  • relationships
  • social boundaries
  • legal

Putting it to work

  • communication
  • boundary setting

Questions to consider

  • How do you set boundaries?
  • Does rejection increase pursuit?

Another view

It implies consent to trying implies acceptance of outcome.

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