When your little child tells a lie, do not rush at him as though the world were about to go into bankruptcy. Be honest with him. A tyrant father will have liars for his children; do you know that? A lie is born of tyranny upon the one hand and weakness upon the other, and when you rush at a poor little boy with a club in your hand, of course he lies.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Children lie when treated with fear or force. Honest gentle parenting reduces the need to lie.
- In plain terms
- Be kind to children so they do not lie out of fear.
- What can you take from it?
- Raise children without fear to avoid lies.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Why does your child lie?
- How do you discipline?
Another view
Children lie for many reasons beyond fear.
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