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What does it mean?
Children lie when treated with fear or force. Honest gentle parenting reduces the need to lie.
In plain terms
Be kind to children so they do not lie out of fear.
What can you take from it?
Raise children without fear to avoid lies.

Where it applies

  • disciplining kids
  • family dynamics

Putting it to work

  • Use reason not force
  • Model honesty

Questions to consider

  • Why does your child lie?
  • How do you discipline?

Another view

Children lie for many reasons beyond fear.

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