'But I can't devote myself entirely to a child,' said she; 'it may die - which is not at all improbable.' 'But, with care, many a delicate infant has become a strong man or woman.' 'But it may grow so intolerably like its father that I shall hate it.' 'That is not likely; it is a little girl, and strongly resembles its mother.'
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- A woman expresses hesitation about caring for a child due to fears of death or resemblance to an disliked father, countered by reassurance.
- In plain terms
- She worries about the child dying or resembling its father but is reassured it will not.
- What can you take from it?
- Fears about parenting can be addressed with reassurance and perspective.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What fears do you have about parenting?
- How do you handle uncertainty?
Another view
It minimizes legitimate concerns about child health and family resemblance.
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