A true marriage is a natural concord and agreement of souls, a harmony in which discord is not even imagined; it is a mingling so perfect that only one seems to exist; all other considerations are lost; the present seems to be eternal. In this supreme moment there is no shadow - or the shadow is as luminous as light. And when two beings thus love, thus unite, this is the true marriage of soul and soul. That which is said before the altar, or minister, or magistrate, or in the presence of witnesses, is only the outward evidence of that which has already happened within; it simply testifies to a union that has already taken place - to the uniting of two mornings of hope to reach the night together.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- True marriage is a spiritual union preceding legal or formal vows.
- In plain terms
- Real marriage happens in the soul before any ceremony.
- What can you take from it?
- Look beyond formalities to the inner bond.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What makes a marriage real?
- How do you see ceremony versus feeling?
Another view
It may minimize legal protections.
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