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Anxiety occurs because of a threat to the values a person identifies with his existence as a self...most anxiety comes from a threat to social, emotional and moral values the person identifies with himself. And here we find that a main source of anxiety, particularly in the younger generation, is that they do not have viable values available in the culture on the basis of which they can relate to their world. The anxiety which is inescapable in an age in which values are so radically in transition is a central cause of apathy..., such prolonged anxiety tends to develop into lack of feeling and the experience of depersonalization.

Rollo May#19

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Anxiety stems from threats to core values; when culture lacks viable values, especially for youth, it leads to apathy and depersonalization.
In plain terms
Worry comes from losing values; without clear values, people feel empty and disconnected.
What can you take from it?
Clear values are essential to prevent anxiety and apathy.

Where it applies

  • generational crisis
  • value void
  • personal identity

Putting it to work

  • identify personal values
  • seek value-aligned communities
  • address value confusion

Questions to consider

  • What values guide your life?
  • Do you feel your culture supports your values?

Another view

It generalizes all anxiety to value threats without noting other causes.

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