I feel the desire to be with you all the time. Oh, an occasional absence of a week or two is a good thing to give one the happiness of meeting again, but this living apart is in all ways bad. We have had our share of separate life during the four years of war. There is nothing in the small ambition of Congressional life, or in the gratified vanity which it sometimes affords, to compensate for separation from you. We must manage to live together hereafter. I can't stand this, and will not.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Hayes expresses strong desire to live with his wife. He rejects political ambition as compensation for separation.
- In plain terms
- Hayes refuses to live apart from his wife even for political career.
- What can you take from it?
- Personal relationships matter more than career ambition.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What sacrifices are worth making for career?
- How do you balance public duty and private life?
Another view
Public service sometimes requires unavoidable separation from family.
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