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What does it mean?
The quote suggests love needs discipline like a child.
In plain terms
You must discipline love or it will spoil.
What can you take from it?
Discipline is necessary even for love.

Where it applies

  • parenting
  • romantic relationships
  • friendship

Putting it to work

  • set boundaries
  • avoid indulgence

Questions to consider

  • Is discipline a sign of love?
  • How much freedom is too much?

Another view

Excessive discipline can harm affection.

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