Every man is rich or poor according to the proportion between his desires and his enjoyments; any enlargement of wishes is therefore equally destructive to happiness with the diminution of possession, and he that teaches another to long for what he never shall obtain is no less an enemy to his quiet than if he had robbed him of part of his patrimony.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Happiness depends on balancing desires with what you have; encouraging unattainable wishes harms peace of mind.
- In plain terms
- Being happy means wanting only what you can get.
- What can you take from it?
- Limit your desires to match your reality.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Is desire always destructive?
- How do we find balance?
Another view
It may discourage ambition needed for progress.
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