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What does it mean?
Harsh parenting is worse because the victims live in constant proximity to their abuser.
In plain terms
Cruel parents hurt more because kids are always near them.
What can you take from it?
Proximity increases the burden of unjust treatment.

Where it applies

  • family therapy
  • child development
  • personal reflection

Putting it to work

  • recognize family harm
  • set boundaries
  • support victims

Questions to consider

  • How does proximity affect trauma?
  • What makes family harm unique?

Another view

It overlooks cases where distance might not help.

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