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What does it mean?
There is often a significant difference between how a man behaves as a lover versus how he behaves as a husband.
In plain terms
Men change from romantic lovers to routine husbands.
What can you take from it?
Roles change how people act.

Where it applies

  • marriage
  • dating
  • relationships

Putting it to work

  • set expectations
  • maintain romance

Questions to consider

  • Does marriage change love?
  • What makes a good partner?

Another view

Some men remain consistent across roles.

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