The man's desire is for the woman; but the woman's desire is rarely other than for the desire of the man.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Men often desire women directly, but women often desire the man's desire for them rather than the man himself.
- In plain terms
- Women want to be wanted more than they want the person.
- What can you take from it?
- Desire can be reflexive rather than direct.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Do you desire the person or their attention?
- How does being desired affect your feelings?
Another view
This generalization may not apply to all individuals or cultures.
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