The desire of the man is for the woman, but the desire of the woman is for the desire of the man.
Attribution disputed; shown as originally published.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- The author notes that men desire women, but women desire men's desire for them.
- In plain terms
- Women often value being desired as much as the person themselves.
- What can you take from it?
- Understand that mutual desire plays a role in attraction.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- How important is mutual desire in relationships?
- What do you seek in attraction?
Another view
This generalizes individual preferences which vary widely.
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