O wiselier then, from feeble yearnings freed, While, and on whom, thou may'st - shine on! nor heed Whether the object by reflected light Return thy radiance or absorb it quite: And tho' thou notest from thy safe recess Old Friends burn dim, like lamps in noisome air, Love them for what they are ; nor love them less, Because to thee they are not what they were.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Shine regardless of whether others reflect your light; value friends for who they are, not who they were.
- In plain terms
- Be yourself and love friends as they are now not as they were.
- What can you take from it?
- Value people for who they are, not who they used to be.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Can you love someone for who they are now?
- Do you miss how they used to be?
Another view
Friendship may require mutual effort rather than one-sided acceptance.
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