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It would be as wise to set up an accomplished lawyer to saw wood as a business as to condemn an educated and sensible woman to spend all her time boiling potatoes and patching old garments. Yet this is the lot of many a one who incessantly stitches and boils and bakes, compelled to thrust back out of sight the aspirations which fill her soul.

Sarah Grimke#18

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Forcing educated women to do only domestic labor is wasteful, like making a lawyer saw wood. Many women suppress their aspirations to fulfill this role.
In plain terms
It is wasteful to force educated women into only domestic work.
What can you take from it?
Allow women to use their education and skills fully.

Where it applies

  • career counseling
  • domestic policy
  • gender equality

Putting it to work

  • support women's careers
  • redistribute domestic labor
  • value education

Questions to consider

  • Is education wasted if used only for home management?
  • What barriers stop women from pursuing their aspirations?

Another view

Some find fulfillment exclusively in domestic roles.

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  3. I know nothing of man's rights, or woman's rights; human rights are all that I recognise.

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