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Fashionable women regard themselves, and are regarded by men, as pretty toys or as mere instruments of pleasure; and the vacuity of mind, the heartlessness, the frivolity which is the necessary result of this false and debasing estimate of women, can only be fully understood by those who have mingled in the folly and wickedness of fashionable life.

Sarah Grimke#7

Attribution disputed; shown as originally published.

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What does it mean?
Fashionable women are treated as toys for pleasure, resulting in mental vacuity and frivolity. Only those in that life understand this degradation.
In plain terms
Treating women as toys leads to empty minds and frivolity.
What can you take from it?
Avoid treating people as objects of pleasure.

Where it applies

  • social critique
  • high society
  • gender dynamics

Putting it to work

  • challenge objectification
  • promote education
  • value depth

Questions to consider

  • How does social pressure shape women's choices?
  • What defines a meaningful life?

Another view

Some may choose fashionable life willingly.

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