Self-knowledge is no guarantee of happiness, but it is on the side of happiness and can supply the courage to fight for it. Psychiatrists have told me that they give The Second Sex to their women patients to read, and not merely to intellectual women but to lower-middle-class women, to office workers and women working in factories. 'Your book was a great help to me. Your book saved me,' are the words I have read in letters from women of all ages and all walks of life. If my book has helped women, it is because it expressed them, and they in their turn gave it its truth. Thanks to them, it is no longer a matter for scandal and concern. During these last ten years the myths that men created have crumbled, and many women writers have gone beyond me and have been far more daring than I. Too many of them for my taste take sexuality as their only theme; but at least when they write about it they now present themselves as the eye-that-looks, as subject, consciousness, freedom.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Self-knowledge supports happiness; sharing truth helps women recognize their reality beyond myths.
- In plain terms
- Knowing yourself helps fight; sharing truth helps others.
- What can you take from it?
- Truth helps women recognize reality.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- How does truth help change?
- What myths still exist?
Another view
Self-knowledge alone may not fix structural barriers.
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