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All agree in recognising the fact that females exist in the human species; today as always they make up about one half of humanity. And yet we are told that femininity is in danger; we are exhorted to be women, remain women, become women. It would appear, then, that every female human being is not necessarily a woman; to be so considered she must share in that mysterious and threatened reality known as femininity.

Simone De Beauvoir#49

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Femininity is presented as a threatened, mysterious quality that only some women possess, separating biological sex from the concept of womanhood.
In plain terms
Being a woman is not just about being female; it involves a special, endangered femininity.
What can you take from it?
Do not equate sex with gender identity.

Where it applies

  • discussing gender roles
  • examining feminist theory

Putting it to work

  • challenge essentialist views
  • promote inclusive language

Questions to consider

  • What defines femininity beyond biology?
  • How does this view affect women's self‑perception?

Another view

The quote assumes a universal notion of 'feminity' that many may reject.

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