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What does it mean?
People often accept their own suffering when they see others suffer too.
In plain terms
Comparing misfortunes makes people feel better about their own.
What can you take from it?
Shared hardship reduces personal complaint.

Where it applies

  • coping with loss
  • community support
  • personal struggles

Putting it to work

  • seek perspective
  • normalize struggles

Questions to consider

  • Does shared pain heal?
  • Why do we compare suffering?

Another view

Some suffer silently even when others share pain.

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