If all misfortunes were laid in one common heap whence everyone must take an equal portion, most people would be contented to take their own and depart.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- People often accept their own suffering when they see others suffer too.
- In plain terms
- Comparing misfortunes makes people feel better about their own.
- What can you take from it?
- Shared hardship reduces personal complaint.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Does shared pain heal?
- Why do we compare suffering?
Another view
Some suffer silently even when others share pain.
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