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What does it mean?
Apologies are often trivial compared to deep sorrow. It distinguishes casual regret from genuine emotional pain.
In plain terms
Sorry is common; true sorrow is rare.
What can you take from it?
Distinguish casual apologies from deep regret.

Where it applies

  • conflict
  • loss
  • misunderstanding

Putting it to work

  • emotional literacy
  • conflict resolution
  • self awareness

Questions to consider

  • How often do you say sorry?
  • What is true sorrow to you?

Another view

It downplays the role of apologies in repair.

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