When others insult, rebuke and speak unpleasant words to us, although an intolerable pain arises like a thorn at the heart, if we comprehend the teachings then we can recognize the essenceless nature of these words which resemble an echo. So just as when an inanimate object is scolded, we will experience not the slightest mental turmoil.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Understanding the empty nature of harsh words helps one avoid mental turmoil when insulted.
- In plain terms
- Realize that insults are just like echoes, so they do not hurt your mind.
- What can you take from it?
- See insults as empty sounds to avoid emotional pain.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- How do you handle insults?
- Are words inherently harmful?
Another view
This approach might feel dismissive of valid criticism or serious abuse.
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