In disagreements with loved ones, deal only with the current situation. Don't bring up the past.
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About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Focus on present issues in arguments instead of old scores.
- In plain terms
- Deal only with the current issue.
- What can you take from it?
- Limit conflict scope to stay productive.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- How do you handle past grievances?
- What helps you stay focused?
Another view
Past issues often explain current triggers.
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