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What does it mean?
Estrangement appears when people become too close, erasing distance.
In plain terms
Too much closeness can create alienation.
What can you take from it?
Maintain healthy boundaries to avoid estrangement.

Where it applies

  • family dynamics
  • online communities

Putting it to work

  • set personal boundaries
  • encourage respectful space

Questions to consider

  • When does closeness become estranging?
  • How can distance be healthy?

Another view

Some distance is essential for individuality.

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