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By Manners, I mean not here decency of behaviour; as how one man should salute another, or how a man should wash his mouth, or pick his teeth before company, and such other points of the small morals; but those qualities of mankind that concern their living together in peace and unity. To which end we are to consider that the felicity of this life consisteth not in the repose of a mind satisfied. For there is no such finis ultimus [utmost aim] nor summum bonum [greatest good] as is spoken of in the books of the old moral philosophers. Nor can a man any more live whose desires are at an end than he whose senses and imaginations are at a stand.

Thomas Hobbes#16

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Manners are about peace and unity, not just small etiquette; happiness is not final rest but ongoing desire.
In plain terms
Good manners help us live together; we always want more than just rest.
What can you take from it?
Social peace requires active engagement, not just rest.

Where it applies

  • community building
  • social harmony
  • philosophy

Putting it to work

  • building community
  • understanding human nature

Questions to consider

  • What keeps society together?
  • Is rest ever enough?

Another view

It equates desires with progress too broadly.

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