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What does it mean?
Speak only if it helps someone or you, otherwise stay silent.
In plain terms
Do not talk about small things.
What can you take from it?
Avoid pointless talk.

Where it applies

  • meetings
  • small talk
  • conflict resolution

Putting it to work

  • pause before speaking
  • focus on value

Questions to consider

  • What counts as beneficial speech?
  • Is silence always best?

Another view

Trifling conversation builds social bonds and comfort.

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