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What does it mean?
Discussing costume with certain people is unwise; politics or religion are safer topics.
In plain terms
Avoid costume talk with some people; stick to politics or religion.
What can you take from it?
Choose conversation topics based on the audience.

Where it applies

  • social gatherings
  • cultural events
  • political debates

Putting it to work

  • read the room
  • steer to neutral topics
  • avoid sensitive subjects

Questions to consider

  • When is it safe to discuss controversial topics?
  • How do you gauge someone’s comfort level?

Another view

Politics and religion can be even more contentious than costume.

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