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I found people were telling stories to themselves without knowing it. It seemed to me that people were living a sort of small sermon that they believed in, but at the same time it was a fairy tale. Selfish desires, along with one or two highly suspect elevated thoughts. They secretly regard themselves as works of art, valuable in themselves.

V. S Pritchett#22

PsychologyIdentityHuman natureNarrativeSelfSelf perceptionStories

About this quote

What does it mean?
People unconsciously tell themselves stories that mix selfish desires with a few elevated thoughts. They view their lives as valuable works of art while believing in these self-serving narratives.
In plain terms
People live by stories that mix selfish desires with thoughts of self-importance.
What can you take from it?
Human beings often craft private narratives to justify their desires.

Where it applies

  • psychological profiles
  • memoir reading
  • personal reflection

Putting it to work

  • examine self-narratives
  • check motives
  • question self-regard

Questions to consider

  • What stories do you tell yourself?
  • Is self-regard always selfish?

Another view

Not everyone regards themselves as a work of art.

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