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There are no exact guidelines. There are probably no guidelines at all. The only thing I can recommend at this stage is a sense of humor, an ability to see things in their ridiculous and absurd dimensions, to laugh at others and at ourselves, a sense of irony regarding everything that calls out for parody in this world. In other words, I can only recommend perspective and distance. Awareness of all the most dangerous kinds of vanity, both in others and in ourselves. A good mind. A modest certainty about the meaning of things. Gratitude for the gift of life and the courage to take responsibility for it. Vigilance of spirit.

Vaclav Havel#20

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About this quote

What does it mean?
With no guidelines for navigating life, humor, perspective, and vigilance are key.
In plain terms
There are no rules for life. Use humor, perspective, and care.
What can you take from it?
Use humor and perspective when life lacks clear rules.

Where it applies

  • personal crisis
  • uncertainty
  • existential reflection

Putting it to work

  • cultivate humor
  • practice perspective
  • take responsibility

Questions to consider

  • How do you live without rules?
  • What guides you when uncertain?

Another view

Humor can sometimes trivialize serious situations or pain.

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