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What does it mean?
Men who are very polite and pleasing in public may be ruled or scolded by their wives at home.
In plain terms
Men who are sweet to others are often controlled by their wives at home.
What can you take from it?
Public manners can hide private domestic dynamics.

Where it applies

  • social interactions
  • family life
  • public persona

Putting it to work

  • observing behavior
  • understanding dynamics

Questions to consider

  • What drives public politeness?
  • How does home life affect public behavior?

Another view

Not all men behave this way.

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