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What does it mean?
Harsh tempers do not improve over time, and critical speech becomes more damaging the more it is used.
In plain terms
Bad habits like anger and sharp words get worse with practice.
What can you take from it?
Work on your temper and speech before they harden.

Where it applies

  • conflict resolution
  • personal growth
  • leadership

Putting it to work

  • practice patience
  • avoid sarcasm
  • reflect before speaking

Questions to consider

  • How has your speech changed over time?
  • What habits do you need to change?

Another view

Some people do learn to soften their words through conscious effort.

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