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What does it mean?
Socializing only brings joy if your inner life is already calm.
In plain terms
Drinking fun only works if your life is not messed up.
What can you take from it?
Fix your inner peace before trying to enjoy the outside.

Where it applies

  • seeking joy
  • social anxiety
  • depression recovery

Putting it to work

  • cultivate inner peace
  • avoid false escapes

Questions to consider

  • Can you be happy socially alone?
  • Is escapism ever good?

Another view

Social support is vital even if inner peace is lacking.

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